Shiloh examines Cary's tattoo on his ribs. It’s an anchor with the Navy’s core values. “HONOR. COURAGE. COMMITMENT” (349). He thinks they should get married immediately, but Shiloh disagrees. He touches the dog tag chain that she’s worn since he left after visiting her in college. They laugh as Cary tells her he was upset Mikey said she had voted for Ralph Nader.

The following day, Gloria sees that Cary spent the night. She smiles, and they have coffee together.

Ryan refuses to amend the divorce agreement to allow for overnight guests, but since Shiloh is engaged, she’s technically not violating it. She plans to wait to tell the children until after Cary leaves, and he’s waiting to tell Lois until her house sale is finalized. Shiloh tells Tom and her mother, who are both overjoyed.